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This just sounds like common sense but too many times, one person feels like they are the only one capable or willing to take care of the loved one.
Recently, I was sick for over 3 weeks. Had my mother still been with us, who would have been able to take care of her? I would not have been able to be with her as I could have given her my chest congestion,cough and other symptoms. Symptoms that are bad for you would be possibly fatal for someone with a compromised immune system.
It does not always have to be an illness. It could be a family emergency that takes you away like another family member ill, having a baby or a death. Also, sometimes it is job related. Sometimes you just need to have a break.
If your loved one has family and friends around that could step in or if you would have had to hire someone if you have an emergency, it is important that you have enough information available for the “replacement” to do what you do on a daily basis.
If family and friends are not available, make sure you have a medical team (CNAs, CMAs, bath aides, nurses, etc) up to date with the necessary information. You can find employees like this through your local health department, senior center, Area on Aging or your health professional.
This can be as simple as having a representative of their agency come out, visit with you and your loved one.
For example, you need to have the medication schedule written out with where and how the medications are bought. What is a typical daily schedule? Are there any food allergies? Does food need to be prepared in a special way? Where is any non medical equipment (special eating tools, bath aids, etc) that you use? Is there anything that brings out bad behaviors in your loved one? What calms them?
What to you is automatic may not even occur to someone else.
This is why I think it is critical to have the binder that was discussed in a previous post. It has the doctors involved with your loved one, medications, other treatments such as physical therapy or any other therapy, etc. It also has a copy of all legal paperwork such as living will, DNR, etc.
A calender is also necessary for medical appointments that are coming up.
So bottom line, make sure everything in the binder is kept up to date. It will give you peace of mind in case of emergency.