I was in a conversation with a couple of friends who are all in their fifties and sixties. We got to talking about health issues and the future. One asked me why I wasn’t afraid of what was to come.
I had to really think about it. Although I do worry from time to time about health issues, I plan on enjoying every minute I can and prefer not to waste it worrying. As someone said…we are in the downhill slide of our life so why not enjoy it!
Although recently when a friend became ill, it made me think. I am one of “the older generation”.
A friend had told me a long time ago that is really made her think when she was filling in a form and it asked her age. She had to go up to the next age bracket and it bothered her. Of course since then we have been up several brackets.
All the posts I made in the beginning were about my parents age people basically. But, now it becomes about my generation. Everything I said for them applies to us also. All the legal documents, family decisions, etc.
As we get older time goes by faster. It just makes sense. When you are five, you have only lived 1/20th of you life. When you are 50, you have lived half. (I know, I am planning on living to be one hundred in these examples.
So, should you let death scare you? I don’t think so but I think we all have to be realistic and know that it is coming. Make plans, live the way want, enjoy what you want you, say the things that need to be said, etc.
Don’t be afraid!