I apologize for the lack of posts lately. This time last year, my Mom was in the final stage of her life. My time was consumed by visits to the nursing home, hospital and preparing my home to bring her home for as long as I could safely keep her here.
Mom did not want to die in a nursing home and we had discussed it many times. Towards the end, Medicare decided mom’s rehab was doing no good so they were going to move her once again to a different wing of the home. Moving people with dementia is extremely hard on them.
The home told me mom was getting very agitated when I wasn’t there so they wanted to drug her more. It was time to make a decision. We decided as a family to bring her back to my home and take care of her here. We knew it would not be for a long period of time but wanted her at home as long as we could make her comfortable.
There was a whirlwind of activity. My son came and built a wheelchair ramp in two days. We had to empty my kitchen of all furniture as mom’s hospital bed and lift would not fit in any of our bedrooms. Luckily, I had great friends who just appeared and we toted up a lot of things so that we were ready. My brother’s and their family would have been here if they could have.
I will write a later post about everything we should have done differently. I just wanted to let you all know that I am still here and will start posting again.
To MOM, I love you and miss you everyday. See you someday!